Sponsorship Updates

The Sponsorship Community Updates provide you, our dedicated sponsors, with the most up-to-date information on what is happening with the Sponsorship Program. It is our hope that these updates give you a better understanding of our work in the field, changes in our DC office and any other information that affects your sponsorship.

• June 2009 - A Sisters Story from Bosnia, Become and Angel Sponsor
• May 2009 - A Sisters Story Bosnia, Message from a Sponsor
• April 2009 - Women in Iraq learn dental hygeine, Host an event
• March 2009 - Letter Exchange in Iraq, A Sisters Story
• February 2009 - International Women's Day, Update from Bosnia
• January 2009 - End of Year Message
• December 2008 - Update on Goma; End of Year Giving
• November 2008 - Crisis in Congo; Honorata Kizende Honored
• October 2008 - Voices from the Field
• September 2008 - Update from Razija in the Bosnia Office
• August 2008 - Women for Women International Nominated for American Express Members Project
• July 2008 - Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Donate $200,000 to Women for Women International
• June 2008 - A Greener, More Peaceful World: Supporting Women Survivors of War and the Environment
• May 2008 - Women for Women International's New Blog: Bringing Home the Stories of Your Sisters
• April 2008 - Majka, Mama, Meme. Celebrating Mother's Day All over the World
• March 2008 - The Greatest Silence - Rape in the Congo
• February 2008 - Kosovo Declares Independence, International Women's Day 100th Anniversary
• January 2008 - Women for Women International on 60 Minutes: Anderson Cooper reports from the DR Congo
• December 2007 - Celebrating the New Year across the Globe
• November 2007 - Success in 2007: Helping Stronger Women Build Stronger Nations
• October 2007 - Special Security Challenges: Sponsorship in Iraq
• September 2007 - Women for Women International is featured in President Clinton's new book Giving
• August 2007 -  Summer Reading: Inspiration into Action
• July 2007 - What You May Not Know About the Power of Your Letters
• June 2007 - Building a Path to a Better Life: Vestine’s Journey
• May 2007 - Giving Hope to Mothers and their Children: Bobette and Claire’s Story
• April 2007 - Engaging Men in “Women’s Issues”: Inclusive Approaches to Gender and Development

 

May 2009

A Sister’s Story from Bosnia

Senada is from Olovo and is a Women for Women graduate. She learned how to process medical herbs for teas and creams.  When she completed the program, she began collecting and drying various herbs.  Her husband did not support Senada in this line of work, and this made things difficult.  Women for Women connected Senada to the companies that buy medical herb products and this enabled her to earn some money.  As her medical herb line began to sell, one by one, her entire family joined the business, even her husband!  Senada now has a thriving business and has taken a micro credit loan to help expand her production by building her own herb dryers. 

With the marketing and business skills she learned during our program, Senada even has a stand at a nearby spa where she earns between $21 - $42 every day.  She applied the marketing and business knowledge she gained during the program to her own products launch.  Senada received the opportunity to present her products to the local spa where her products are now sold.  We are all so proud of Senada and wish her all the best!

Media Alerts
- Huffington Post: Zainab Salbi's reaction to President Obama's Speech in Cairo, Egypt

- CNN Newshour: Zainab Salbi provides commentary for CNN Newsroom on President Obama's speech in Cairo, Egypt

- Mary Baldwin College: Executive Director of Global Programs, Karen Sherman, delivers commencement speech at Mary Baldwin College

Read these stories in full, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

 

Become an Angel to a Sister In Need

Women for Women International is excited to announce the launch of our new Angel Sister Program!  We are looking for a few dedicated sponsors to join a new group of supporters we are calling our Angel Sponsors.  Each month, hundreds of sisters lose their sponsors through no fault of their own.  We are looking for sponsors to adopt these women, providing vital support as they complete their training.  Your Angel Sister may have as little as 2 months or as much at 7 months left to complete her program.  You have the opportunity to become an angel in another’s woman’s life.  For more information on our new program, please click here http://www.womenforwomen.org/sponsor-a-woman/angel-sponsor.php

 

 

 

Connect with Us

Are you a sponsor, an active participant in fundraising, or a global advocate of women's rights? Want to connect with us in more ways than one? Connect with us online to be a part of our growing online community of supporters and get updates and information on our work, as well as what you can do and what's happening in the supporter community.

Transform a Life, Save a Tree!

In order to ensure maximum assistance goes to the women we are sponsoring, we are making an effort to transition as much of our communication as possible to email.  This saves the environment and ensures that your donated dollars are used to transform the lives of women, rather than to fill up your recycle bin.  Please ensure we have your correct email address on file.  You may update your information by emailing us at sponsorship@womenforwomen.org or calling (202) 521-0016 or (888) 504-3247.  Also - very important - please check your computer settings to allow emails from this account or add us to your address book.  We don’t want to lose you!

May 2009

During the past few months, we (as everyone else) have been focused on weathering the economic storm.  We examine our finances weekly, in minute detail, trying to eliminate every cent of cost from our overhead, so that the maximum aid can be sent to the women we serve, women who are suffering from the economic downturn more dramatically than we can ever imagine.  It’s easy to get lost in the numbers and overwhelmed by the poor economic news, however, this month, a letter from one of our participants and one from a sponsor arrived to remind me exactly what we are truly about, giving hope and a future to women who have lost everything.

A Sister’s Story from Afghanistan

Hawa is one of the Women for Women International program participants from the Kundoz Province in Afghanistan.  She is married and has six daughters and one son. When Hawa enrolled with our program, you could see all the suffering and pain she experienced in life.  One program trainer said, “You could feel her suffering in what she said and how she looked.”  At that time, she was struggling with poverty, but she did not complain about that, because what caused most of her suffering was her husband’s illness and having become bedridden at home.

Hawa describes how her life has changed after joining Women for Women. She is learning manual and technical business trainings.  Hawa hopes that one day she will start her own income-generating project to help both her family and her country.  She said,

"Now, I am very happy that I am aware of the women rights. I know that women are able to work outside from their homes and help their family. I am busy with tailoring. During nights I sew people's clothes for money and during the days, I am busy with my lessons at WWI training program.”

Hawa expressed her gratitude to her sponsor for her connection and support.  She also thanks Women for Women International for helping women in Afghanistan.
“Now, I have a happier life with my family.  Since participating to this program, I am able to solve my life and my children problems. I am so glad to join to this program and find a sponsor sister.”         

A Message from a Sponsor
We received an email from Judy, who sponsors a woman in Iraq.  She so eloquently expressed how her sister, Zainab, touched her life:
I'm the one who is inspired - by Zainab's dignity and graciousness in the face of hardships I can probably not even imagine accurately.   I'm humbled and privileged to be able to be of some small help.
If others, who give to Women to Women, could open an envelope and find the surprising letter, as I did, I'm sure they would be as moved as I.
Thank you all for facilitating such a wonderful gift to me.
Good luck each day to all your staff, and keep up the important work you are doing.
Judy
Seattle, WA

Media Alerts
Zainab Salbi Discusses the Courage & Triumph of Women Survivors of War in the Sponsorship Program:  Salbi gives a detailed description of how women in the program are able to rehabilitate and move from victim to survivors through the aid of Women for Women International
A Call to Action: Defend Women's Progress, Human Rights in Afghanistan
In response to the authorization of the Shiite Personal Status Law, Zainab Salbi declares a call to action to defend women's progress and human rights.  As women's rights in Afghanistan are once again being challenged in the political arena, Salbi emphasizes that women's rights should be preserved and protected, not forced to take a step back from the progress and development that has been made.
Women for Women International’s founder and CEO, Zainab Salbi, is now on Twitter!
She will be updating while she is on the road with her thoughts and pertinent news. Make sure to start following her from your Twitter!  http://twitter.com/ZainabSalbi
Read more on these stories, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

Become an Angel to a Sister In Need

Women for Women International is excited to announce the launch of our new Angel Sister Program!  We are looking for a few dedicated sponsors to join a new group of supporters we are calling our Angel Sponsors.  Each month, hundreds of sisters lose their sponsors through no fault of their own.  We are looking for sponsors to adopt these women, providing vital support as they complete their training.  Your Angel Sister may have as little as 2 months or as much at 7 months left to complete her program.  You have the opportunity to become an angel in another’s woman’s life.  For more information on our new program, please click here http://www.womenforwomen.org/sponsor-a-woman/angel-sponsor.php

 

 

 

Free Women for Women International eCards
Share your support of Women for Women International by sending a free eCard to your friends and family.  Each eCard shares a story of hope from women survivors of war.  Please go to ecards.womenforwomen.org and send a card today!

General Updates                                                                      
New email address for letters:  We have a new email address if you wish to email your letter to your sister.  Please email your letters and photos to letters@womenforwomen.org. 

 

New Facebook Fan pages

We now have a fan page for each of our countries on Facebook!

Please check them out and become a fan (and pass this information on to all your friends and family).  These pages are a great way to get the latest information and see pictures from all our field offices.  You must first be logged into Facebook, then go to each of the fan pages and click on the link to become a fan. You can search for each page by “Women for Women International – DR Congo,” then continue with the rest of the country names to find the rest.

Year-end tax receipts:  In order to ensure maximum assistance goes to the women we are sponsoring, we will stop sending paper tax receipts every year.  Your year-end tax receipt will be emailed to you early in the year for the previous year's donations.  Please ensure we have your correct email address on file.  You may update your information by emailing us at sponsorship@womenforwomen.org or call (202) 521-0016 or (888) 504-3247.  Please check your computer settings to allow emails from this account or add us to your address book.

Quote of the Month
“Thank you, my dear sister, for sharing my sorrow.  It makes it a bit easier. I would like to thank you for asking about my childhood.  No one before cared and asked about it.  I just hope that you’ll come and visit me one day and that we’ll have a cup of coffee together in my house.”
- Abida, Bosnia

How to reach us:
Billing, payment or other changes in your account – finance@womenforwomen.org
General sponsorship questions – sponsorship@womenforwomen.org
Volunteer opportunities or other ways to help – volunteers@womenforwomen.org
Or by phone (202) 521-0016 or (888) 504-3247

April 2009

As we enter Spring, we think of new beginnings and hope.  I wanted to take this opportunity to thank each and every one of you for your generous and continued support.  With the status of the global economy, our women are especially affected and rely on our assistance more than ever.  Your loyal support and sponsorship means the world to our sisters and we thank you.

Women in Iraq learn the importance of oral hygiene

We received an update from one of our women groups in Iraq and I thought I'd share this with you.  Our participants attended a dental care training as one of their health and wellness courses and it was very well received by all the women who attended. 

The training was lead by two dentists: Dr. Ammar, specialist in orthodontics and general care and Dr.Khalid, specialist in gum disease.  They taught the importance of developing good dental habits and getting regular check-ups every six months.  Most of the women said they only go to see the dentist when a toothache got to the point where it needed medical attention. 

The women learned what to look for to prevent the development of gum disease and tooth decay.  The presentation included the proper methods of brushing, the proper tools to use, the importance of taking care of children's teeth and how certain foods and the candy they eat affect their teeth.  The women from these groups asked a lot of questions and the doctor's were pleased to have been able to deliver so much new and important information to these women.

Now is The Time to Host an Event – Check out Our Blog for Some Ideas!
Our Get Involved! Blog highlights supporters from all over the world who have made a great impact both in the community and in the lives of women in post-conflict areas. The Get Involved! Blog includes stories and pictures of our supporters who have hosted events, performances, art shows, yoga events, sports tournaments and much more. Check it out to find upcoming events in your area, learn about our new partnerships, and to get inspired to host an event of your own at www.womenforwomen.org/getinvolved.

Media Alerts
- "Women Make Gains, But Still Struggle in Afghanistan" on PBS's The NewsHour
- ELLE UK: Lauren Bush to use fabric from Democratic Republic of the Congo program for new clothing line
- Women for Women International Supporters featured on ESPN: Supporters trained and participated in The Rallye Aicha des Gazelles in Morocco to raise awareness for women survivors of war.
- New Definition of a Business Woman: In Bosnia, Lucia invested her program funds in a small business and transformed the lives of everyone in her village.

Read or watch these stories in full, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews
Thank you for your continued support.  Please email me any questions, concerns or comments you may have.  For the latest information on Women for Women International, please go to www.womenforwomen.org.

Quotes of the Month

'I am old mama, but now I am trying to learn more about the life skills training.' - Anyonomous, Sudan

'When I got your letter, it really made me enjoying the whole month.' - Rebecca, Sudan

Today become an angel to a sister in need. Each month, hundreds of sisters lose their sponsors through no fault of their own. So many women are losing out on the valuable support that comes with having sponsor. You have the opportunity to become an angel in another’s woman’s life.  For more information on our new program, please click here http://www.womenforwomen.org/sponsor-a-woman/angel-sponsor.php

March 2009

This month, I wanted to show my appreciation for the folks who rarely receive any public recognition – our volunteers!  We have a large and loyal group of women who come to volunteer their time and work in our DC offices every week and I would like to say Thank You!  Your work is a tremendous help in getting the letters processed and delivered to the Sponsors in a timely manner.

Become a Volunteer!

In the past few months, we have been receiving large quantities of letters from the field (which is great).  We know how precious each letter is and we are working as quickly as we can to turn them around.  Therefore, if you live in the Washington DC area and have some time to volunteer, we would love to have you work with us!  For more information, please visit our website at www.womenforwomen.org/volunteer

Letter Exchange Program in Iraq
Speaking of letters, we recently conducted a trial run of the letter exchange program with a controlled group in Iraq.  Previously, this program was halted due to security reasons and trust issues.  I am extremely excited to report that the test was a success and the women are now asking us to open up the program for all the women groups!  Therefore, if you are sponsoring a woman in Iraq, you are now free to write to your sister as often as you wish.  Please email your letters today!  And I have to mention, the letters we have received from the women in Iraq are some of the most visual and beautiful letters I have seen.  It is very interesting to see how these women express their emotions and convey their thoughts through images.

Actually, the women in ALL the countries love receiving letters, postcards and/or photos.  Please send or email us your letter and we will send it out to your sister. 

A Sister's Story
Mukamparirwa Speciose is a 29 year old woman in Rwanda and had her first child three months before the genocide when she was only 15 years old.  During the genocide, Mukamparirwa lost her parents and siblings who were providing a home for her and her child.  She was left with nothing and nowhere to go.  She decided to join the Gisimba Orphanage with her child and lived there for three years.  Their living conditions were poor and the future looked worse and Mukamparirwa had lost all hope.  She left her child at the orphanage and turned to prostitution.  She said, 'Life as a prostitute was hell on earth, but I continued as I could see no way out.“ 

Mukamparirwa joined Women for Women International in August of 2008.  She said, 'Immediately I saw a ray of hope.  I enjoyed all the topics and started regaining my confidence.“  She started her own income-generating activity with her first sponsorship funds and began selling charcoal.  After three months in the program she gave up prostitution and began fighting to gain custody of her child, which she accomplished.  They now live together, have three meals a day and she is able to send her child to school.  She quickly opened a bank account  where she has now saved $370 and says, "I will continue to work hard, but most of all I learned how to save.“

 

Thank you to Peace in our Rwanda office for sending us this story for this update.

Reminder: An opportunity to see our program firsthand in Rwanda
Metta Journeys 2009 trips to Rwanda
to Benefit Women for Women International

Two opportunities May 16-23 or May 28-June 4, 2009

As a strong Women for Women International supporter, I would like to remind you of a special invitation to visit our program in Rwanda through a partnership with Metta Journeys.  During the trip, you will have the opportunity to witness Women for Women International’s programs in the field – and see how you are helping to make a difference in the lives of women survivors of war around the world.

To learn more or join one of the two trips, please contact Kim Werth at Kim@mettajourneys.com or +1 888 886 2425, ext 2.

Media Alerts
- Some say there are two Afghanistans - the one the world sees changing, and the hidden, scarier one that exists for women. Our newly released 2009 Afghanistan report is now available on our website at www.womenforwomen.org/Afghanistan
- The Case Foundation: Zainab Salbi discusses Women for Women International's History and Future

Read these stories in full, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

Thank you for your continued support.  Please email me any questions, concerns or comments you may have.  For the latest information on Women for Women International, please go to www.womenforwomen.org.

 

February 2009

We have had quite a few weeks here at the Women for Women offices.  For two weeks, honored to have our Country Directors visiting (and working) with us as they prepared for their US tour.  Our Country Directors came to the US to plan and strategize for the coming year.  They attend conferences and events where they have the opportunity to meet and greet with some of our sponsors and donors.  The two weeks wrapped up with an Open House at the Museum of Women in Arts.  This was a great opportunity for local sponsors and donors to come meet the County Directors.  It was an amazing evening filled with inspiration and hope. Pictured here are Country Directors Sweeta Noori from Afghanistan and Seida Saric from Bosnia during our Open House.

International Women’s Day is March 8th – Add Your Voice to the Global Women’s Movement

On International Women’s Day, women around the world join together in celebration of the intelligence, strength, courage and beauty of women. Since 1908 this has been a day to celebrate the achievements of women around the world without regard to their national, ethnic, linguistic, cultural, economic or political differences.

This year – maybe more than ever - the women we serve are in dire circumstances. Women in Sudan, Nigeria and other countries where we work, are reporting a rise in food prices. Staples like rice and beans have doubled in about a year – leaving families hungry and wondering where their next meal will come from.

This year we want to celebrate the women we serve by highlighting their strength and courage in the face of this food crisis. Women in the field aren’t waiting for a bailout. They are reaching out for the tools and skills that will allow them to end the food crisis forever. Our commercial farming initiatives in Rwanda and Sudan go beyond the traditional means of fighting hunger by just distributing food; we actually teach the women the techniques and sustainable practices of organic farming.

Here’s what you can do to celebrate International Women’s Day:

Join our Global Teleconference Thursday, March 5th
Global Program Executive Director Karen Sherman and Dr. Grace Fisiy, Agribusiness Specialist, discuss what women in our program are doing to eradicate hunger in their countries. You can participate in this call Thursday, March 5th at 5 p.m. Eastern Standard Time. For more details about joining the conference call, visit www.womenforwomen.org/IWD

 

 

Have an Event
You can host an event to raise money and awareness for the women around the world suffering from the food crisis. In the past, supporters have signed up to be a part of this special day by hosting house parties, holding open dialogues about violence against women, and hosting an art exhibit.
To host an event, please email our Grassroots Marketing Officer, at jmorabito@womenforwomen.org or 202-737-7705 to receive all the materials you need.

Update From Our Bosnian Office

The New Project Gave Hope to Women Victims of Sexual and Domestic Violence

Women who survived sexual violence in war or were exposed to domestic violence are much more likely to experience economic problems than other women. These women take on the role of bread winner for themselves and their families, even though many of them have no formal education or skills training of any kind. Economic independence is the foundation of the program of Women for Women International. When women have the opportunity to earn a reasonable income, they become more self-confident and take on a larger role within their families and communities.

Women for Women International teamed up with UNHCR to create a new program geared toward helping women who are victims of sexual and/or domestic violence.  Since the program was formed, 60 women have participated in this program.  This program teaches the women to become self-reliant and gives them the opportunity to sustain a living on their own, while receiving counseling and support group resources.  We give the women training as well as the equipment needed to help them start up a small business in hopes of adding to their household income.

The special significance of this program is that in some cases, our training contributed to building and strengthening of the broken family relationships. It gathered all the members of household around one common goal and encouraged them and gave them hope for better life. Today, almost all these women work hard and they are happy to have been given a chance to improve their lives. In many cases, the earnings of these women are the only source of income for the entire household.

Adisa, who was raped during the war when she was only 16 years old, received a greenhouse and a machine for soil tillage. With the training and assistance she received during our 12 month program, she planned to start producing organic food. She noticed the demand of organic foods rising and now owning her own piece of land, this would be the perfect opportunity.  Adisa says, “While we were still attending the Women for Women International program we learned how to fight alone and develop business, we learned about marketing and cooperation with others. That will be of great use for me now. Now, I only think about future.”

Message from a Sponsor

Hi,
One of the first women I sponsored was from Kosovo.  Because we didn't have translation services after that year, our contact was minimal but this woman had amazing persistence and a will to stay connected.  Sometimes I would get a letter, none of which I could understand. But, I still felt the connection and it reassured me that she was ok.  Sometimes I got an email that just had a flower or happy face icon.  There are no words for how touched I was with her efforts to reach out. But then an amazing thing happened and she somehow became connected with another Albanian who was doing a doctoral research project in England and agreed to intercept and translate our letters.  

It has been an amazing journey to really be able to communicate; to find out that my sister has married, risen from poverty and had a baby!  She now sends me pictures of her sweet baby!!  This year she sent me a Christmas present.  It was the most touching gift ever. She sent a pair of socks her mother had knit for her baby daughter, along with an identical pair which her mother knitted for me!  I hung the baby socks on my Christmas tree and will do so each year as I hold them dear in my heart.

Thank you Nancy Oyloe for sending us this very touching story and allowing us to share it with all of our sponsors.

Media Alerts
- New York Times Blog: Nick Kristof Highlights Women for Women International
- Women for Women International Policy Briefing: “We Learned How to Dig Up Money from the Ground”

Read these stories in full, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

Google Launches Women for Women International “Theme” on iGoogle

Show your support by adding the Women for Women International theme to your iGoogle home page. Add our theme to your iGoogle home page now!

Google has launched a Women for Women International "theme" on iGoogle as part of a collection called “Themes for Causes.” Women for Women International is one of a select group of nonprofit causes which includes an iGoogle header of photographs showcasing Women for Women International programs.

Thank you for your continued support.  Please email me any questions, concerns or comments you may have.  For the latest information on Women for Women International, please go to www.womenforwomen.org.

January 2009

As we look ahead to 2009, there are many exciting developments that will help us to serve the women and you, the sponsors, better.  I look forward to sharing them with you as they progress – stay tuned!  This month I would like to do something a little different.  I normally share a sponsored woman’s story in this update, but this month I thought I would share an email we received that touched my heart.  Sponsor Christi Goni reminded me just how powerful we all are when we work together.

“I don't know that this message will be read, but I feel compelled to send it anyway.  A few moments ago I received Zainab Salbi's Year End Message and I can truly say that it was exactly what I needed.

I sponsor a sister in the Congo and because of the escalating fighting there I have no idea if she is ok or honestly if she yet lives.  I follow the BBC news everyday and have begun to feel overwhelmed by the chaos in our world.  From the new violence between Israel and Hamas to the horrendous Christmas Day Massacres in Congo I had begun to feel helpless and hopeless.

I am not a wealthy woman, but I am a working class American who is very grateful for the blessings in my life.  I have my first home, a loving husband, healthy, happy children, enough food for my family, a job that I enjoy and the occasional fun money to do something special. My children can go to school and we can all speak our minds whenever we want to.  As an American woman I have the right to do anything I have the courage to imagine and this year I helped vote in the first African American President.   What more could anyone ask for?  Unless of course it was to ask that everyone else have these things too.

But despite the blessings in my own life and the trials too, I was beginning to feel like there was no point to my sponsorship.  Not that I was going to stop sponsoring, but I was no longer feeling the joy or hope in it.  I was so consumed with the seeming hopelessness of it all that it had begun to feel like a futile effort.  As though it really meant nothing in the long run, especially in the face of so much chaos, pain and death.  What could my small effort do in the face of such overwhelming odds?

But then Zainab's letter came and it helped me to remember why I am doing this.  I can't save the world.  And my support may not even be enough to help save my Sister.  But if I give up, then what does she have?  When all else is gone, there is ALWAYS HOPE! I have always known that, but I needed Zainab's reminder.  I just needed to refocus and remind myself that alone I am small but with Women for Women International I am Mighty.  Together we can change the world one woman, one family at a time!

So, thank you, Zanaib.  Thank you to everyone involved with Women for Women International.  You help give greater meaning to my life and you have helped me to remember that giving up is never an option.  With love and perseverance we can and will prevail.

Warmest Regards to you all and Thank you,

Christi Goni, Very proud Sponsor of Nsimire Ntakobajira M'matabaro, DRC

Media Alerts

Eve Ensler, Kavita Ramdas and Zainab Salbi: Open Letter to President-Elect Obama

On December 5, 2008, a few days before the 60th anniversary of Universal Declaration of Human Rights, a group of global and domestic women's organizations gathered in New York to frame a shared agenda for advancing global women's rights. Determined to use their collective strength and expertise to work together to advance a global agenda for women's freedom, safety and agency, they crafted the following open letter to President-elect Obama and committed to working together to see their vision come true in this century.

Please read the Open Letter to President-Elect Obama posted to the Huffington Post on January 13, 2009 by visiting www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

Thank you for your continued support.  Please email me any questions, concerns or comments you may have.

 

 

December 2008

As the year comes to a close, I am grateful for the commitment of sponsors like you and am thrilled to share more stories directly from the women with you.  This month, I want to share a story directly from Peace Ruzage in our offices in Rwanda about a woman whose life has been profoundly changed through the program and her sponsorship.

Marceline Nyirantezabahiga is a single mother with six children, 4 boys and 2 girls. Before Marceline joined Women for Women International’s program, she was living with her husband and children, but her husband had another wife. Marceline was never on good terms with her husband due to poverty in their home; she was beaten on a daily basis. Her first born child died while standing in the way of his father beating his mother -- the boy fell down and died on the spot. Marceline said it might have been a heart attack.

Since then, Marceline has never gone back to her husband’s home again. She had no land to settle on, nor did she have a job to depend on with her big family.

Her last option was to start begging from house to house. She was doing whatever she could to make some money for her family. During that period, she went for a check up and found that she was HIV positive. She and her family had stayed with a few friends, but eventually were homeless. One morning a savior came her way; this was a woman whose home she stopped at to beg. Fortunately, that woman was the one in charge of social affairs in the sector where Women for Women International was enrolling. That day changed her life.

When she joined the program, the first thing she did was to rent a house where she now stays with her children. The first sponsorship funds she received from the program were used to start a small business of selling fruits. She could use the profits to improve her business and use the rest to pay her children’s school fees and buy food. ‘We now eat three meals a day including breakfast. Something we never dreamt of having in life.”

Marceline has now reached an amazing stage; she buys her goods (fruits) in wholesale and sells them to retail traders. She is now healthy, well informed and competitive. On her graduation day, she revealed to me that she has 85000fr which is equivalent to $156 in her savings account.  She says that her aim is to build her own house, and her dream to see her children finish their studies.

 “The only thing I wish this program should do is to help more and more poor women so that their lives can change the way mine did.”

Our thoughts are with our sisters and co-workers in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).  As I write this, eastern Congo violence is erupting again. Women for Women International is preparing to respond to the needs of thousands of women who are threatened by the fighting and in urgent need of assistance.
"More than half of our women are missing classes in our training program in Goma," says Christine Karumba via phone from the Democratic Republic of the Congo. "Due to the volatile situation they are unable to reach our training facilities."

Since most women in the Goma region are not able to come to us, we will go to them and offer assistance when fighting subsides.  Individual details are difficult to get at this time, but please know that the impact to the women and our work is specific to Goma.  Women in other regions of the DRC are safe. As we know more, we will update you.

Media Alerts

Status of Women in Iraq: New Women for Women International study in Washington Post article

War Survivor Champion: Zainab Salbi featured in Working Mother Magazine

Christine Karumba, Country Director of the Congo, interviewed by Voice of America about ongoing Rape Crisis in Congo

Read these stories in full, as well as other Women for Women International news at: www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews

Democratic Republic of the Congo – Updates

Women for Women International staff have reported back after visiting refugee camps. Women who have been displaced are in dire need of the opportunities the Women for Women International program can provide.  Stay informed by visiting www.womenforwomen.org/congo for new updates from our staff there.

The Greatest Silence: Rape in the Congo directed by Lisa Jackson and aired on HBO will now be aired on national television in the DRC in three languages this month.  This is a watershed event for the government and people of the DRC, acknowledging as a nation the crisis of rape that must be addressed.

Nigeria - Updates

Local news reports as of Dec 3rd indicate the situation in Jos has calmed down with the deployment of Nigerian police forces and the cancellation of political events that could have caused more strife. As a precautionary measure for staff and program participants, WfWI’s Jos office is temporarily closed.

While our staff does not have any current reports of injury or death of program participants, as soon as the office re-opens, we will immediately seek to understand how the women and their families were or were not affected and we will report to you as soon as we get this information.  Please go to www.womenforwomen.org/breakingnews for the latest updates.

Give the Gift of Sponsorship

It’s easier than ever to give the gift of sponsorship this year.  Share the experience you’ve had of changing a woman’s life with a friend or loved one.  Go to www.womenforwomen.org/giftsponsorship or call us at 1-888-504-3247.

Honor Someone Special

During the holiday season, our hearts turn to those we love and those we have lost. What better way to honor them than by making a donation in their name.  For more information go to www.womenforowmen.org/donate

Olive Smart partners with WFWI

Founded by two mothers turned entrepreneurs, Olive Smart is committed to creating environmentally friendly bags for the conscious consumer! The Olive Smart Sack contains six stylish reusable bags and is designed to fit easily into the cup holder of your car or anywhere else you may need it. Making a small change in your lifestyle can make a huge impact on the environment! Visit www.womenforwomen.org/olivesmart to purchase one today and support women survivors of war.

Thank you for your continued support and please keep the emails coming.  I truly appreciate all your comments and suggestions on how we can better support our sisters together.

Sherin Baday
Sponsorship Manager
sponsorship@womenforwomen.org

November 2008

Our thoughts are with our sisters and co-workers in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).  As I write this, eastern Congo violence is erupting again. Women for Women International is preparing to respond to the needs of thousands of women who are threatened by the fighting and in urgent need of assistance.
"More than half of our women are missing classes in our training program in Goma," says Christine Karumba via phone from the Democratic Republic of the Congo. "Due to the volatile situation they are unable to reach our training facilities."

Since most women in the Goma region are not able to come to us, we will go to them and offer assistance when fighting subsides.  Individual details are difficult to get at this time, but please know that the impact to the women and our work is specific to Goma.  Women in other regions of the DRC are safe. As we know more, we will update you.

 

Honorata Kizende, Award Recipient of the Women of the World Award
In recognition of her courage to speak out on behalf of those who have been silenced by the courage to speak out on behalf of those who have been silenced by the violence and chaos of war in the Congo, Honorata Kizende was presented with the Women for the World Award at our annual awards gala last month.  For more on Honorata’s story, please go to www.womenforwomen.org/congo.

Given the situation in the DRC, I know you will be glad to learn that more than 250 women were sponsored at our annual awards gala as well. Anderson Cooper of CNN visited the women in our program in the DRC last year also hosted the event. 

 

New Letters Blog 
Hearing firsthand from women in the all the countries where we work is the most meaningful way to see the impact you have upon their lives and their families’ lives.  Knowing not all the women are able to write, I want to share with you some amazing letters I just posted on our letters blog at

Now see and share letters from your sister on our site – New Letters Blog
Now we’re making it easier to read and share the heartfelt and caring letters from the women in our program.  Please visit our new letters blog at www.womenforwomen.org/letters to read some amazing letters and photos of some of our strong sisters.  If you wish to share your letters and photos, please email them to me and I will post them to our site. 

Here is one sample:
“I am happy writing you again with so much joy and delightfulness.  I want to tell you that I received your aid from the Nigerian office, may God bless you.  My morale is boosted.  We are starting off our group project like rice cultivation, poultry farming too.  I hope to learn so much from the program and to have success story like other communities the program has worked in.
Thank you and God bless.  Bye.”
Victoria, Nigeria

Media Alert

In 2006, Emmy Award winning producer/director Lisa F. Jackson spent the year in the war zones of eastern DRC. She documented the tragic situation women and girls are forced to deal with as they stand in the middle of a countries conflict they did not create, and cannot control.  Her movie, The Greatest Silence, will air Thursday, November 20th on HBO (please check your local listings).

Give the Gift of Sponsorship
Please consider giving the gift of sponsorship this year.  Share the experience you’ve had of changing a woman’s life with a friend or loved one.  If you’re able to make your gift by December 10th, we can ensure your gift recipient will receive their welcome kit by December 21st.  Please go to www.womenforwomen.org/giftsponsorship or call us at 1-888-504-3247.

More Gifts That Give Back
From our partners - start your holiday shopping early and get eco-friendly gifts that support Women for Women International. Spoil your loved ones with gourmet organic gift baskets, eco-friendly bouquets and sustainably grown wreaths and Organic Bouquet will donate 10% of your purchase back to Women for Women International. For more information, please go to www.organicbouquet.com/womenH08.

Host an Event
At this time of year, consider gathering your friends for an event to raise awareness and sponsorships. Here are some ideas:
- Turn your office holiday party into a fundraiser with a bucket of cheer for donations
- Read Between Two Worlds by Zainab Salbi with your book club, propose that your book club sponsor a woman and write letters at your next meeting
- Sell inexpensive bottles of wine for the cause at your events and increase the price as a donation to Women for Women International
- Hold a potluck dinner and ask friends to donate the amount they would have spent on going out to dinner to our programs

For more ideas on hosting an event, please visit www.womenforwomen.org/hostevent.

Share the Sponsorship Experience
Many of you have asked how you can we help you share the sponsorship experience with others.There are thousands of women survivors of war who are waiting for sponsors.  Would you be willing to help find them the sponsors they need?
Passionate sponsors are the best advocates when it comes to recruiting friends and family to join our Sponsorship community.  We know that.  What we don’t know is how to make it as easy as possible for you to reach out with information about the Sponsorship experience. 

What can we do to help you share the sponsorship experience with others? How can we make it easy and fun for you encourage your friends and family to sponsor a woman survivor of war?  We need your thoughts, ideas, and suggestions.  Please reply or send an email to sponsorship@womenforwomen.org.

Thank you for your continued support and I look forward to hearing from you.
Sherin Baday
Sponsorship Manager

Quote of the Month
“All along women in our community are voiceless, have no right in decision making.  But through the training and support we are receiving I think we shall overcome and attain our right.”

 

October 2008 - Voices from the Field

Lateisha Garrett recently visited with women in Kosovo and Bosnia and Herzegovina and I’d like to share one of her stories with you…

Gaining economic self-sufficiency is a critical step for women if they are to take their rightful place in the lives of their families and communities.  Our agribusiness efforts through our commercial integrated farming initiative (CIFI) are one example of how we help women – and entire communities – lift themselves out of poverty. Another is by providing women with market-based skills training so they can find employment or start their own businesses.

This is particularly important in Kosovo, where unemployment is at 50% overall – and more than 80% for women. Also making their situation challenging is the fact that during the war, thousands of women were widowed and are now the sole breadwinners for their families.

As a part of their skills training, Women for Women International offers women the chance to enroll in carpentry training. Participants who show promise can then take advantage of an advance carpentry course. The women are then able to make furniture, providing them with the skills they need to find employment in a local furniture factory.

During a recent trip to visit the women at the Elnor Furniture Factory in Pristina, Kosovo, Women for Women staff found the women working on a shipment of chairs. They were hard at work finishing the high quality beechwood furniture for purchase throughout Europe. The women graduates were proud of their work and themselves. Many of the women traveled from the surrounding villages for the opportunity to work and were supporting parents, husbands and children on their income. Kosovar Women working in carpentry is almost unheard of, but the women are slowly gaining acceptance.

After the visit Kosovo Country Director, Hamide Latifi, described how the Kosovo job market demanded non-traditional answers. She also spoke about how employers were unconvinced of the value of women workers. She said, “I want to convince business owners to take a few women. They will see they are smart, punctual and know their jobs. I don’t want them to do us any favors. They do favors for themselves by hiring women. Building a new Kosova requires breaking tradition. Women need to be a part of the work.”

Media Alert

PBS NOW:  Zainab Salbi featured in “Notable women: Advice to Generation Next”
Zainab Salbi shares her advice with younger women on how to gain and keep power. 

Newsweek:  Zainab Salbi featured in “You Can Change the World” article
Zainab Salbi and women for Women for Women International featured in Newsweek.  The article focuses on advice from celebrities and leaders on how everyone can take steps to impact the world and their community.

The Huffington Post:  Zainab Salbi discusses the importance of charitable giving during lean times. What hurts in the US will have devastating consequences for millions around the world.

Now see and share letters from your sister on our site – New Letters Blog
Now we’re making it easier to read and share the heartfelt and caring letters from the women in our program.  Please visit our new letters blog at www.womenforwomen.org/letters to read some amazing letters and photos of some of our strong sisters.  If you wish to share your letters and photos, please email them to me and I will post them to our site. 

Quote of the Month
“Now I am together with my family and we are talking about you my friend. My little sister Arbnora, when she saw the photo of you she asked me: Will I have the same friend when I grow up? It is my honor that in your letter you have even talked about your sister, and through this letter I greet her as well.  I will save your letters hoping that one day we will meet.   Until my next letter I hug you with all my heart,”
- Genta, Kosovo

September 2008 - Update from Razija in the Bosnia Office.

This month we have a story from Razija in our Bosnian office.  This story was so compelling that I had to share.  It is about a group of women from Vranduk, Bosnia who graduated from our program and became social, economic and political leaders in their community.  These women, who went through the program together, continued to meet regularly after graduation.  Slowly they received the attention from the community leaders and were given a building where they could meet and had a bus line re-routed to include this location. 

They formed the Vranduk’s Cherry Association (cherries are the town’s most successful product) and were entrusted to organize the town’s annual festival.  “It was a day to remember, a day when our women showed the whole community how capable they are if only given a chance.  I trusted your organization because I saw for myself how much the program helped my wife to make changes on her and on our family.  I respect and appreciate her more now.  Today I am very proud of her” said Merhunisa’s husband (one of our graduates).  “Our plans for the summer are to open a traditional Bosnian restaurant in the public social building where Bosnian specialties will be served,” said Hedija, the leader of the Vranduk’s Cherry Association.

Click here to read the full story.

Message from a Sponsor

I am a sponsor of one woman in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).  Initially, just to know I was helping a woman in need made me feel as though I was doing a small part towards making the world a better place.  Then, I received her first letter and a picture of her!  I feel connected to her and I know I am providing promise for an otherwise difficult life she is experiencing a result of war and poverty.  I found your organization through V-Day. You are very efficient and thorough and I feel, from your updates and thank you notes, close to your organization.  I received a letter regarding my "sister's" graduation from your program and how I can be a part of that (by sending her a letter and a graduation gift.)  It makes my heart feel full.  I could not do this without you and I THANK YOU SO MUCH because, many times I wanted desperately to know how to help, and when I found Women for Women, you provided a way.  As I told my "sister" in the DRC, I will keep her in my thoughts forever, and I will.  She is grateful to me and I am grateful to her.  This is the way to healing the planet.  Thank you for changing my life with this gift and for all that you do for women in the world.
- Mar Geaux

“I have become a real woman… contrary to what I was in
the past” - Sister letter from DRC

 

Quote of the Month

“Stretch your hands that I may hug you and my heart be connected to yours… Though you do not see me, you will see me through letters.”
- Beatrice, Rwanda

August 2008 - Hello from Sherin Baday

I hope everyone is enjoying their summer.  I’d like to introduce myself.  My name is Sherin Baday and I am the Sponsorship Manager.  I hope you’ll share with me any special interests you have in the program and your sponsorship stories.  In return, I look forward to sharing messages from the women with you and ways to get involved. 

Please nominate our American Express Members Project

Sponsors, I'd like to tell you about a project we submitted to the Members Project. It's called "Help Women and Children Survivors of War Rebuild" and with your support it could get funding from American Express. To nominate this project for potential funding, please go to Help Women and Children Survivors of War Rebuild.

Please click the link on our project and click Nominate — and ultimately vote so we may share in the $2.5 million in funding from American Express.  If you do not have an American Express website login, just click “Guest Member” provide a little information and you can then Nominate and vote. 
Please show your support with a Click and Share this with as many friends as possible.

 

Voices from the Field
This month, we received several messages from our sponsorship manager in Iraq.  While the translation is a bit choppy, the heartfelt message is clear.

They loved the program and benefit from all its lectures and now they are learning vocational skill in making the Islamic wear.

Most benefit of the program (after the vocational skills) are the networking skills, that Rajaa (program participant) could benefit from it to help other women in her group and outside the group. 
They loved lectures about violence and how to face it.  They know that all the women may be subjected to violence if she didn’t stop it.

Finally, they are so grateful and thankful for their sister for her co-operation and support not only for them but the Iraqi women in general.

Media Alert

Voice of America® recently reported on our Commercial Integrated Farming Initiatives (CIFI) in Rwanda and Sudan and how we are helping women farmers combat hunger in a grassroots way. 
“Soaring food prices over the past year have forced an estimated 100 million more people around the world into extreme poverty.  A women's organization in Washington is responding to this disaster with a new anti-hunger project. Its goal is to train thousands of women in developing countries to grow crops that not only will feed their families — but also earn a profit.”
To read the full article, visit Breaking News at www.womenforwomen.org.

 

Registration for the 2008 Run for Congo Women is now open!

Run for Congo Women is an inspirational Run or Walk that supports Women for Women International's work in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.
I encourage you to share news of the run with friends, participate or volunteer.  Through this run, the thousands of people involved give hope and support to women of the Congo whose lives have been torn apart by the constant brutality of war.
Run for Congo Women will be coming to following cities:

• September 13, 2008 Morrison, CO
• September 14, 2008 Portland, OR
• October 4, 2008  New York, NY
• October 5, 2008  Phoenix/Tempe, AZ
• October 11, 2008  Chicago, IL
• October 18, 2008  St. Louis, MO

To register today and for more information, visit www.runforcongowomen.org. You have the opportunity to change the life of a Congolese woman today.
Thank you for your continued support and I look forward to hearing from you.

Click here to read the full story.

Message from a Sponsor

I am a sponsor of one woman in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).  Initially, just to know I was helping a woman in need made me feel as though I was doing a small part towards making the world a better place.  Then, I received her first letter and a picture of her!  I feel connected to her and I know I am providing promise for an otherwise difficult life she is experiencing a result of war and poverty.  I found your organization through V-Day. You are very efficient and thorough and I feel, from your updates and thank you notes, close to your organization.  I received a letter regarding my "sister's" graduation from your program and how I can be a part of that (by sending her a letter and a graduation gift.)  It makes my heart feel full.  I could not do this without you and I THANK YOU SO MUCH because, many times I wanted desperately to know how to help, and when I found Women for Women, you provided a way.  As I told my "sister" in the DRC, I will keep her in my thoughts forever, and I will.  She is grateful to me and I am grateful to her.  This is the way to healing the planet.  Thank you for changing my life with this gift and for all that you do for women in the world.
- Mar Geaux

“I have become a real woman… contrary to what I was in
the past” - Sister letter from DRC

Quote of the Month

“Stretch your hands that I may hug you and my heart be connected to yours… Though you do not see me, you will see me through letters.”
- Beatrice, Rwanda

July 2008 - Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt Donate $200,000 to Women for Women International

The Jolie-Pitt foundation announced a $200,000 pledge to Women for Women International’s program in Iraq to sponsor 300 women, and more than 1,000 children who will benefit.

“These educational support programs for children of conflict are the best way to help them heal.”
– Angelina Jolie

The donation will help mothers in Iraq to feed their children, pay for their school fees, and earn a sustainable income to support their families. Ms. Jolie has visited Iraq twice in the past year.

“We hope to encourage others to give to
these great organizations.”
– Brad Pitt

Highlights from Recent Letters

Exchanging letters with your sister is a powerful part of your sponsorship experience. Your letters bring hope, strength, and comfort to a woman in need, and give you the chance impact the life of your sponsored sister across the world. We want to share with you some special letters we recently received.

“I have become a real woman… contrary to what I was in
the past” - Sister letter from DRC

Dearest friend,
 
Receive warmest greetings from your friend. I am learning basic business skills because though these skills I learn will help me better my situation and that of my family.
         
I hope that even after the graduating I will be conducting on petty trade to
increase my economic level. The training I have received has helped me become a real woman contrary to what I was in the past; before I joined the program.
 
Yours, Aimerance

“When I don’t feel well I just remember that there is someone who loves me”

- Sister letter from Bosnia

Dearest Sister,
 
Thank you my dear sister, for sharing my sorrow with me. It makes it a bit easier…the war begun and I lost my two sons and a daughter and my husband. I had difficult times during the war. I was wounded very badly. There were lots of bullets and grenades. People were dying in front of my eyes and I wasn’t able to help. I brought some to my house and helped them with their wounds in order to survive. There were people and children who died in my hands.

God gave you to me because I was never a bad woman. I loved everyone and helped all people. I think of you as my real sister and consider your family as mine. When I don’t feel well I just remember that there is someone who loves me and cared about me. You are a fine woman with a lot of strength. Just like myself.
 
Best regards for you and your family, Your Sister Abdia

“I love being called your sister” - Sister letter from Sudan

Dear Sister,

I am actually blessed to have you as a sister. I really enjoy your letter. Thanks for your soothing letter. Our program here in the Sudan is very educative. We are learning basic skills such as entrepreneurship and marketing skills. We really gain from these training sessions.
 
I must also tell you that, I am glad because you have helped me both financially and socially. I love being called your sister. I will keep you in my prayers and please do know that you letters are important in my life. Have nice time and prosperous year!

With Love, Deborah

June 2008 - A Greener, More Peaceful World: Supporting Women Survivors of War and the Environment

Women for Women International’s commitment to creating a better world extends beyond our support of women survivors of war. We are also dedicated to the environment, and strive to help the women in our program make their communities environmentally conscious and ecologically resourceful. As we help women rebuild their lives, we work to create a greener, more peaceful world.

In Rwanda, we recently launched a new environmentally friendly program: the Commercial Integrated Farming Initiative (CIFI). The CIFI program is based on a partnership with an organic farming training center. Integrated farming practices enable women to grow a variety of crops and keep livestock on one piece of land. During the next three years, 3,000 Rwandan women will learn how to grow sustainable organic crops that they can sell in the market or use to feed their family.

The organic farming approach enriches the soil, replenishing nutrients so that it will continue to be fertile for future generations. We have secured funding for CIFI centers in Rwanda and Sudan, and hope to expand to Afghanistan in the near future.

In addition to organic farming, women in our Rwanda program continue to preserve the environment through their craft skills training programs. Women learn to weave reusable baskets and bags to replace plastic shopping bags, which are outlawed in Rwanda. They also use recycled materials to create beads for jewelry.

In Kosovo, littering and trash removal is a serious problem. Many farmlands are covered in trash after the devastation of war. Kosovo Country Director Hamide Latifi explains that as people and areas recover from the war, “you will see it in how they take care of their land.” Women for Women International encourages this process by making clean land a condition for microcredit loans for farmers.

Our environmental initiatives are just one part of Women for Women International’s strategy to change the world, one woman at a time.

 

You can also help Women for Women International and the environment by “shopping green.”

Going Green: Support our Environmentally Friendly Partners

• Olive Smart is committed to providing attractive, quality products that encourage an environmentally conscious lifestyle. The Olive Smart Sack contains six stylish reusable bags and is designed to fit easily into the cup holder of your car or in your bag so you will never forget to bring it with you on your shopping excursions. Visit www.olivesmart.com today and portion of the proceeds will be donated to Women for Women International.

 

 

 

• Organic Bouquet flowers are grown and harvested using practices that aim to improve the quality of farm working conditions, minimize damage to ecosystems, conserve biodiversity, and enhance environmental quality for future generations. Organic Bouquet will donate 10% of their proceeds to Women for Women International when you shop. Click here to order flowers that are sustainably grown and that help support women survivors of war!

• Beauty Society products are irritant free, cruelty free, fragrance free, environmentally friendly and dermatologist tested. Beauty Society also offers a refill and reuse recycling program for moisturizers and uses only biodegradable packing material in shipments. Click here 

 

May 2008 - Women for Women International’s New Blog: Bringing Home the Stories of Your Sisters

There’s a new way to learn more about Women for Women International, find out what’s happening in our field offices and get the latest updates on our program! Read stories direct from the field on our new blog “Notes from the Field” available online at www.womenforwomen.org/fieldnotes.

 

Notes from the Field: Updates from Rwanda and Kosova

“Always be Strong” by Erica Tavares

Today was a day of hopeful beginnings and joyful celebrations. We traveled 90 minutes outside of Kigali to Kayonza, Rwanda. There, we met with more than 250 women as they waited, in the sun and in the rain, to be enrolled in our program, eager for their chance to rebuild their lives.

They came early, walking up to two hours to arrive by 8 am. Some would wait for 5 or 6 hours for their chance to meet with our trainers for their enrollment interview. While the women waited, they were divided into groups of 20, gathered together by village. These women, neighbors in their communities, would become a future “training group,” attending their bi-weekly rights education classes together and providing the powerful emotional support to each other that so many say is critical to their success in the program.

At the end of the day, we celebrated with 160 women who had completed their 12 months in the program. With the strong beat of African drummers providing the powerful backdrop, women danced, sang and shared their courageous stories of how they found the strength to rebuild their lives after joining Women for Women International:

“I now have an opinion about the status of my country,” said one.

“I’ve learned how to save money for the future,” said another. 

“Now, I vote.” “I have started sending my daughters to school.” One after another, women stood and told us of the large and small ways they have changed their lives and the lives of their families. And after two hours of joyous celebration, we departed, with the women continuing to dance and sing as we walked toward the door. As we reluctantly prepared to head back to Kigali, Zainab left the women, our graduates, with this message: 

“Always be strong. I want you to always be strong.” 

Kosova

“Education for Women in Kosovo” by Trish Tobin

While visiting in Kosovo, I had the opportunity to meet with three courageous women who, after graduating from Women for Women International’s program, decided to go back and finish their secondary education. They came to Sadije’s house - Sadije is a graduate who hosts classes in her home. Tina (28), Elmiahate (26) and Afrodite (30) are from another village though, the village of Llapushnik.

There is a whole generation in Kosovo who have missed completing their education because of the war and for some because of the oppression before and during the war. After the war, the focus was on recovery of the basic needs - homes for those who lost theirs, returning to look for lost loved ones. Now the focus is on jobs, how to generate income to get by and to improve their standing. Returning to school wasn’t something most could afford - if they didn’t go to school in the “regular years” people typically didn’t go back. When asked, they tell me they “missed school,” a term that people understand means that they couldn’t go to school because of war.

These women who I met used their Women for Women International funds to pay for transportation and school fees and even more importantly, they have been lobbying the 16 women in their village in their same situation to also go back to school - so far 14 of the 16 have returned to school.

For more updates from the field, please visit www.womenforwomen.org/fieldnotes ww.womenforwomen.org/fieldnoteswww.womenforwomen.org/fieldnotes.www.womenforwomen.org/field

 

April 2008 - Majka, Mama, Mëmë: Celebrating Mother’s Day All over the World

Hiding to Survive – A Mother’s Story

Meet Elizabeth. Elizabeth is not a political activist. She is not a revolutionary. She is a mother in Southern Sudan who was willing to give her life so her daughter Athieng, could have a better one.

When Elizabeth’s husband decided their very young daughter should marry, Elizabeth did the unthinkable. She hid her daughter so that Athieng could get an education. Her courage nearly cost Elizabeth her life. Her time in prison and rejection from her family left her with five other children, no shelter, no clothes, no food and no means to survive. So she came to Women for Women International with one hope – that someone like you would give her and her children a second chance.

And you did. Your generous support gave Elizabeth and her daughter a future beyond their dreams. Through donations and Sponsorship support, Elizabeth received job training, and attended rights awareness classes. Athieng is still in school and dreams of being a lawyer so she can defend people’s rights and help end the suffering in Sudan.

Elizabeth's story of love and courage is one all women can understand.

Gifts that Give Back – Help Women Survivors of War this Mother’s Day

Jewelry That Inspires - Give the special women in your life a beautiful piece of jewelry from Lucina Jewelry. Crafted with the help of Women for Women International graduates from Afghanistan, each accessory is filled with the beautiful story of resiliency, hope and opportunity. With each piece purchased, 20% of proceeds are returned to help more women survivors of war. 

Beautiful Bouquet - Why send an ordinary bouquet of flowers when you can send a beautiful arrangement from Organic Bouquet and help Women for Women International at the same time. For each bouquet you send, Organic Bouquet gives back 10% of the purchase price to support Women for Women International.

 

 

March 2008 - The Greatest Silence - Rape in the Congo

The Greatest Silence - Rape in the Congo
Premieres on HBO April 8 at 10 pm ET check local listings
 

The most recent data indicates that more than 5.4 million people have been killed in the war and conflicts in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC).  Human rights violations continue at staggering levels and rape as a weapon of war continues to be perpetrated.
 
Emmy Award winning producer and director Lisa F. Jackson visited the war zones in the eastern DRC and the offices of Women for Women International there.  She documented the tragic plight of women and girls in the country's intractable conflict and gave the women she interviewed the chance to break The Greatest Silence.  The film is a journey into a literal heart of darkness, a search for survivors who pay witness to their own experiences, and break the silence.
 
We encourage you to watch and share this information with friends to learn more about what is happening to women the DR Congo.  Please watch Tuesday, April 8 on HBO at 10pm or check you local listings for additional air times.

Women for Women International’s New Study Finds Iraqi Women Want Jobs, Security and National Unity

Women for Women International recently released the latest installment of our Stronger Women, Stronger Nations report series, designed to amplify the unheard voices of women in Iraq. Our 2008 Iraq report, featured by BBC World News, found that the current insecurity, lack of infrastructure and controversial leadership of Iraq has transformed the situation for women from relative autonomy and security into a national crisis.

Women for Women International surveyed more than 1,500 Iraqi women, finding that:

• 89% believe that someone in their family will be killed in the next year.
• 70% of women say their family cannot afford to pay for the necessities of daily life.
• 76% of respondents said that girls in their family are not allowed to attend school.
• 88% of women thought that the separation of people along ethnic or religious lines was a bad thing.

Women for Women International Founder and CEO Zainab Salbi recently returned to her native Iraq – her personal experiences and interactions with Iraqi women reflect the findings of the Stronger Women, Stronger Nations report.

“Peace—real peace—means that there are schools for children to attend, and that it is
safe for them to go. Peace means having three meals a day, a job, and a home to come
back to. It is time for women to be involved, not just in symbolic ways, but through full participation at every level, from the family dinner table to the highest levels of the government. Strong women lead to strong nations.”
-Zainab Salbi

Although women in Iraq face instability and hardships, sponsors like you are helping Women for Women International bring Iraqi women the skills and training they need to help rebuild their country. Since reopening our Iraq office in fall 2006, we have helped more than 2,900 women in Iraq. Thank you for your dedication to helping the women of Iraq.

Exciting Staff Updates

We are expanding our Sponsorship Team to better serve our sponsors and their sisters. Please join us in welcoming new Sponsorship Coordinators.

Sponsorship Coordinators
Priscilla Muntemba Taylor: Rwanda, DRC, Sudan
Elizabeth Walker: Bosnia, Kosova, Iraq
Sara Grigera: Afghanistan, Nigeria

February 2008 - Kosovo Declares Independence, International Women's Day 100th Anniversary

After years of conflict, Kosovo has declared independence from Serbia. While the women in our Kosovan Program have desired Independence, many of them were also quick to point out that there is also a strong need to resolve other Kosovan issues, such as the current unemployment situation.  Please visit www.womenforwomen.org/kosovo for an update from Kosovo Country Director, Hamide Latifi, about Kosovo's declaration of independence.

International Women’s Day 100th Anniversary: March 8th

This year International Women’s Day, March 8th, is celebrating its 100th Anniversary. On International Women’s Day the entire world celebrates the spirit of global sisterhood that embodies Women for Women International.

Since 1908, International Women’s Day has been a day when women of diverse cultural, racial, religious, economic, and political backgrounds come together to commemorate their past achievements and inspire positive change for the future. International Women’s Day is recognized by many countries as a national holiday similar to Mother’s Day celebrations. Events ranging from political rallies, theatrical performances, government events, concerts and food markets take place in honor of sisters, wives, mothers and grandmothers.

Women for Women International’s chapter offices hold International Women’s Day ceremonies where women in our program come together to celebrate their sisterhood and blossoming education, success and independence. Your sister will participate in International Women’s Day through song, dance, speeches, and special foods. It is truly a day of celebration for you and your sister, and a powerful way for our voices to be heard.

Host an Event

With the 100th Anniversary of International Women's Day on March 8 and Mother's Day on May 10, now is a perfect time to plan an event to raise awareness about Women for Women International. To host an event, just follow these three simple steps:

1. Contact Patty Pina, our Grassroots Marketing Officer, at jmorabito@womenforwomen.org or 202-737-7705 to sign-up and receive your planning kit and all the materials you need.

2. Select a location to host your event, like your home, a local restaurant, or a community center.

3. Invite your friends, family, co-workers and community to join you and learn how they can help change the world, one woman at a time.

As a special thank you to you and your event attendees, you will be invited to join a conference call with Women for Women International founder and CEO, Zainab Salbi, and Chief Marketing Officer, Trish Tobin, at 3pm ET on March 8. Zainab and Trish will talk about how Women for Women International is playing an integral part in the advancement of women in war-ravaged parts of the world.

 

March 8th Run for Congo Women Event: Frederick, Maryland

Join Run for Congo Women for its March 8th 5k Walk/Run in Frederick, Maryland and with every step you can help change the lives of women in our Congo program. For details on the Frederick run, or for more information on upcoming runs in your area, registration, or how to organize a run in your community please visit www.runforcongowomen.org. 

Purses with Purpose: Handbags to Support Women Survivors of War

Now you can show your support for Women for Women International every day with a Flashbag handbag! Flashbags are unique handmade handbags created from eye-catching images or your own personal photos. Flashbag’s new handbags feature photos of women in our programs, and if you purchase a Women for Women International Flashbag, 10% of the proceeds will benefit our organization.

Women for Women International kicked off 2008 with CBS News show 60 Minutes featuring our program in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.  Anderson Cooper reports that although the civil war in the Congo is an ethnic conflict, gender has become a crucial factor, too, as women are bearing the brunt of one of the horrible weapons used in the war: rape.

January 2008 - Women for Women International on 60 Minutes:

Anderson Cooper reports from the DR Congo

Women for Women International kicked off 2008 with CBS News show 60 Minutes featuring our program in the Democratic Republic of the Congo.  Anderson Cooper reports that although the civil war in the Congo is an ethnic conflict, gender has become a crucial factor, too, as women are bearing the brunt of one of the horrible weapons used in the war: rape.

60 Minutes’ “War against Women” report tells the story of Lucienne- a Congolese rape survivor who is rebuilding her life with the help of Women for Women International.

Lucienne’s Story “My husband was on a business trip when Hutu soldiers broke into our home.  I had my baby in my arms.  They pulled it away from me and threw [her] aside.  They pulled me and tied my arms behind my back with a rope together with my sister-in-law.  They dragged us out…”  Lucienne was then brutally raped in front of her own brother- whom they killed because he wouldn’t watch.  Her sister-in-law was also killed because two men couldn’t decide who should have her as a wife- so they killed her to “solve their problem.”

The soldiers took Lucienne as a sex slave.  After three and a half tortuous months Lucienne was rescued, but “When my husband heard I was back, he said he would not remain with the [rapists] wife.  He stopped me from coming to his farms.  I had to live at my father’s old friend’s place, where I sleep with my children on the floor…”

Today Lucienne’s life is looking up thanks to Women for Women International and generous help from people like you.  “Joining the program has been a salvation…my life has changed my children are healthy.  I used my sponsorship funds to pay for medical treatments for them.  I recovered confidence through the [Women for Women International] training.”

 

Support Women Survivors of War this Valentine’s Day

Surprise your Valentine with a bouquet of eco-friendly roses and Organic Bouquet will include a FREE heart shaped box of organic chocolates.  With each purchase Organic Bouquet will donate 10% to Women for Women International.  Please visit www.organicbouquet.com/wfwfreechoc (offer expires February 20, 2008.)

Tax Receipt Reminder

Women for Women International’s Tax ID# is 52-1838756.  Your sponsorship contributions to Women for Women International may be tax deductible under US law.  Tax receipts will be sent by January 31, 2008 and will detail the total amount of your tax-deductible contributions from 2007.  Please consult with your tax advisor for further information.  If you have additional questions, please contact our Finance Department at finance@womenforwomen.org or 202-737-7705.

December 2007 - Celebrating the New Year across the Globe

As the New Year approaches, we wanted to share with you the many different ways your sister may be celebrating. This holiday season, write to your sister to tell her about your New Year’s traditions.

Bosnia and Herzegovina and Kosovo:  New Year’s is the most popular holiday in Bosnia and Herzegovina and Kosovo, and is celebrated as a non-religious holiday when members of all faiths come together. New Year’s traditions in Bosnia and Herzegovina and Kosovo are similar to Christmas in the United States. There is usually a New Year’s tree and gifts from “Grandpa Snow” for the children.

Women in Kosovo sing and dance.

Afghanistan:  Afghanistan’s traditional New Year is called Nau Roz, which means “new day” and is celebrated on the first day of spring. During the celebration lavish meals are prepared, including samanak and haft-mehwah. Samanak is a dessert made of wheat and sugar. Haft-mehwah consists of seven fruits and nuts to symbolize spring.

Women in Rwanda.

Democratic Republic of the Congo and Rwanda:  New Year’s Eve in the

DRC is a modest celebration – many families go to church in the evening and then return home to spend time together. In Rwanda, families gather on New Year’s Eve to enjoy a meal which includes meat if available, and local drinks. In addition, many families make new clothes for the New Year.

Iraq:  The celebration of New Year’s Eve on December 31 in Iraq is similar to celebrations in the US. Enjoyed primarily by the young and the middle and upper classes, New Year’s Eve is often marked with lavish meals, parties, and celebrations in the street. Iraqi Kurds celebrate Nowruz, similar to the celebration of Nau Roz in Afghanistan.   Nigeria:  Nigeria’s New Year’s celebration is called Odum Titun. During this time, families often gather with friends and loved ones. While some people choose to celebrate quietly at home, others attend festive parties that often include fireworks. In addition, many Christians mark the holiday by attending a traditional midnight mass on December 31.

Sudan:  January 1 is the anniversary of Sudanese independence from colonial rule. It is celebrated with military parades in the streets and families gathering for meals, singing and dancing to give thanks not only for the New Year, but also for new opportunities for the country.

Exciting Updates from Women for Women International

Make a Tribute Gift with Confidence. Now is a great time to make your tax-deductible year-end gift to honor someone special. And with our high marks from Charity Navigator, you can donate with confidence. For more information, please visit Charity Navigator.

Vote for Women for Women International on the Working Assets Donations Ballot!

Are you a member of Working Assets? Help fund Women for WomenInternational by voting for us on the 2007 Donations Ballot! Go to http://www.WorkingAssets.com/vote.

By filling out the Working Assets 2007 Donations Ballot, you can vote to allocate this year’s funding to Women for Women International. The distribution of funds is determined solely by how many votes each group receives. The more votes you give us, the more money we get. It's that simple.

Watch a Sponsor and her Sister Meet at the Gala More than 800 people attended the 2007 Awards Gala to celebrate our awardees and honor the courage and resilience of the women in our program. The heartwarming highlight of the evening was when sponsor Liz Hammer and her sister Violette met for the first time. Shop for Jewelry Made by Afghan Graduates Lucina Jewelry brings together the craftsmanship of artisans in developing countries and the talents of American designers to create indulgent jewelry. Lucina designers use exquisite fluorite gemstones hand-carved by graduates of Women for Women International's Afghanistan program. Visit www.lucinajewelry.com to shop the Women for Women International Collection of beautiful bracelets, earrings and necklaces today!

November 2007 - Success in 2007: Helping Stronger Women Build Stronger Nations

As 2007 draws to a close, we want to celebrate that more than 53,000 women transformed their lives through Women for Women International's program this year! Thanks to your support, these women now have enough money to feed their children and send them to school. The rights awareness and job training they received this year will bring self-confidence and help to earn an income. Most importantly, in 2007 more than 53,000 women gained hope for a better future. Here are some other exciting developments from this year: 

• Micro-credit Loans: In 2007, more than 6,000 women received micro-credit loans that allowed them to start and run their own businesses – for a total of $8.2 million. One program participant who received a life-changing loan says, "I am the new definition of a business woman."

 •  Stronger Women, Stronger Nations Report: Women for Women International conducted an in-depth report that gave the women of Kosovo a voice in rebuilding their nation in 2007. We surveyed more than 1,600 Kosovar women who said that economic, social, and political issues are at the top of their agenda for change. More than 89% of women surveyed expressed hope and optimism for their nation's future. Read the report on our web site: www.womenforwomen.org/kosovo.

Women in one of the first trainings in the Sudan.

• Sudan Sponsorship: After facing many challenges in this devastated region, the Sudan Sponsorship Program opened in 2007, providing the women of southern Sudan with the literacy and business skills that they need to rebuild their lives

• Improving Letter Exchange: This year we exchanged more than 95,000 letters between sponsors and their sisters! We also analyzed the letter program in each of our field offices to help improve letter exchange and strengthen the bond between you and your sister.

• Taking Action Against the Rape Epidemic in DR Congo: In the Democratic Republic of the Congo, violence against women continues to increase, making our sponsorship program work as important as ever.  In October, the New York Times reported that "women are raped, mutilated and kept as sex slaves, then they are turned away from their families and left with no hope to rebuild their lives." We've seen evidence of the increasing problem in the number of women literally lining up at our gates in DR Congo for their chance to be sponsored.  Thanks to you and all of our supporters we're increasing the number of women we serve there.  If you haven't seen the e-mail update on the increasing state of violence and need in DR Congo – please visit www.womenforwomen.org/congowomen. 

As the year ends, now is the perfect time to send a tax-deductible donation. With your generosity we can ensure that in 2008, we will help more women on their journey from victim to survivor to active citizen.

Just in time for your winter celebrations!

Organic Bouquet is offering a handmade herb wreath that is beautifully crafted using fresh certified organic Rosemary, Thyme and natural Bay leaves, accented with fresh organic red Chili Peppers for a splash of eye-catching color. This wreath provides up to a year's supply of culinary herbs! Visit

www.organicbouquet.com/wfw3hwreath to purchase the Three Herb Wreath and support women survivors of war. Organic Bouquet will donate 10% of your purchase to Women for Women International.

Watch our Videos 

Please take a moment to view some of the videos we've posted with updates from the field and share your favorite with a friend.  They are now easy to find on our site at www.womenforwomen.org/watch.

October 2007 - Special Security Challenges: Sponsorship in Iraq

Every week stories of explosions, unrest and the climbing death toll in Iraq fill the news. But we don’t often hear about the reality of daily life in Iraq. The women of Iraq face unfathomable challenges each day. They cope with strict curfews and long power outages and live in a constant state of fear. What jobs they did have, they can no longer get to – causing increasing levels of economic hardship. Although the security situation poses serious obstacles to women in our program, they keep attending classes because their will to learn and improve their lives is unshakable.

We have 1,000 women in Iraq waiting at our doors for their chance to be sponsored – and to change their lives and the lives of their children. Will you consider sponsoring a woman in Iraq today? Due to the tenuous security situation, women in our Iraq program cannot exchange letters with their sponsors, but they are still in desperate need of the education, training, and support your sponsorship will provide. Your commitment will give a woman the tools she needs to rebuild her life and build a more secure and peaceful nation.

Consider taking on another sister in Iraq today and give her knowledge, confidence and courage. Or spread the word to a friend or family member who may be interested in sponsoring an Iraqi woman..

 

Writing to Your Sister this Holiday Season

As the holiday season approaches, we know you may want to send good wishes to your sister, or perhaps even add her to your gift list. Now is the perfect time to send your sister a card, so she’ll read it in time for the New Year! Please note that your sister may celebrate Ramadan, Christmas or other holidays.

Also, we would like to take this time to remind you of the gift-giving policies at Women for Women International. We understand that many sponsors want to share above and beyond the sponsorship funds and letters they send each month. However, due to customs duties and the high cost of overseas shipping, there is a limit to what you can send. Feel free to send any of the following flat, paper items.

 

• Greeting cards: You can send a greeting card to your sister in place of a letter to share holiday cheer.

• Photos:  Send your sister photos of you and your family, your house, your town, a holiday tradition, or another special moment in your life.

• Postcards:  A postcard from a vacation or your hometown can give your sister an idea of where you live. 

• Stationery:  Send 5-10 sheets of small stationery or note cards that your sister can use to write to you.  Envelopes aren’t necessary, since all mail goes through our offices.

• Map:  Send an 8 by 11 inch or smaller map of your hometown or state. 

• Drawings:  Share your children’s creativity by having them draw a picture for your sister and her family. 

Please attach items securely to your letter and label them with your sister’s full name, woman group and country to ensure delivery. Please note that we cannot send any items that are not listed above. Please do not send jewelry of any kind, books of any kind, clothing or pieces of cloth, hand-knitted small items, cosmetics, seeds, food or candy, toys or any other non-paper, non-flat items.

The correspondence between you and your sister is an important element in the Sponsorship Program. Letters are the ultimate source of support and inspiration for your sister. If you have any questions or need more information, please feel free to contact the sponsorship team at sponsorship@ womenforwomen.org or (202) 737.7705.

September 2007 - Women for Women International is featured in President Clinton's new book Giving

In his new book, President Clinton tells the story of Women for Women International and our founder Zainab Salbi.  He writes about the connections sponsors and their sisters make, and how life changing the experience can be.  "We all have the capacity to do great things," President Clinton says. "My hope is that the people and stories in this book will lift spirits, touch hearts, and demonstrate that citizen activism and service can be a powerful agent of change in the world."

Special Reminder – Iraq Sponsorship Program

We have 800 women in Iraq that are waiting for their chance to be sponsored – and to change their lives and the lives of their children.  Will you consider taking on an additional sponsorship of a woman in Iraq today? Due to the tenuous security situation, women in our Iraq program cannot exchange letters with their sponsors, but are still in desperate need of the education and training your sponsorship will provide.  Your commitment will give a woman the tools she needs to rebuild her life and build a more secure and peaceful nation. Contact us at sponsorship@womenforwomen.org to add a sister in Iraq and change another woman's life today.

Learn more about our program in Iraq. 

August 2007 -  Summer Reading: Inspiration into Action

Summer reading is a perfect opportunity to learn more about women survivors of war. Whether it is a heart-wrenching narrative or a detailed historical account, books can offer insight into the culture and life of your sister. But reading about women's struggle for peace can do more than increase your awareness. Sharing stories of women survivors of war can also open dialogues, build communities and bring change.

Inspired by Women for Women International President and Founder Zainab Salbi's memoir Between Two Worlds, Janice Maffei and her book group decided to take action. They formed giving circles to reach out and educate others about the work of Women for Women International and encourage them to make a difference. "What we thought might be a challenge has become a joy," Janice says. "We have found that women are hungry to help and be in community with other women." Today, Janice and her friends have recruited over 200 members and raised $25,000 to support women survivors of war. To learn more about Janice's book club, check out the latest edition of Outreach, Women for Women International's newsletter, in the mail or read it online.

Other sponsors have used books to increase awareness in their community. A Women for Women International sponsor in California, Wiloe Poehlmann, took action by creating a book-swap fundraiser. She gathered friends and encouraged them to bring a book and a donation to her meeting. Each person left with a new book and the proceeds benefited women survivors of war through Women for Women International.

Women for Women International Country Directors pose with supporter Stacey Edgar  during last year's The Other Side of War book tour in a Colorado Barnes and Noble. 

You can also spread the word about Women for Women International by recommending books written by Zainab Salbi to friends or to your book club:

- Between Two Worlds details Women for Women International President and Founder Zainab Salbi's personal story of survival. When she was eleven years old Zainab's father became Saddam Hussein's personal pilot. Her memoir shares the horror of growing up in Saddam's shadow, her escape from her war-torn country, the challenges she faced in the United States, and her journey to become a leader for women's rights around the world.

- The Other Side of War takes readers into the heart of Afghanistan, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Colombia, Democratic Republic of the Congo, Rwanda and Sudan. Its images and stories chronicle the consequences of war left out of the headlines – the side of war that is imprinted on the faces of the women who endure its devastation.

Find more ways to Get Involved.

Special Reminder – Iraq Sponsorship Program

We have 1,000 women in Iraq that are waiting for their chance to be sponsored – and to change their lives and the lives of their children.  Will you consider taking on an additional sponsorship of a woman in Iraq today?  Due to the tenuous security situation, women in our Iraq program cannot exchange letters with their sponsors, but are still in desperate need of the education and training your sponsorship will provide.  Your commitment will give her the tools she needs to rebuild her life and build a more secure and peaceful nation.  Contact us at sponsorship@womenforwomen.org to change another woman's life today!

July 2007 - What You May Not Know About the Power of Your Letters…

The letter you send may be the first letter your sister has ever received.

Not only are many women we work with disadvantaged, they are the most socially excluded people in their own cultures. Receiving a letter addressed to them is something many women could not have conceived of before enrolling in Women for Women International's program.

Exchanging letters is new to many of the cultures we work with. For many women, writing and receiving letters is completely foreign to them. It is their first expression of freedom and self-confidence.

"I am happy to have a chance to write to you because I have never before written a letter to anyone. The first person I write to is you."

– Kosovo Participant

You don't have to wait for a reply to write again. We encourage you to write letters even if you haven't received a response. Your letters do make a difference to the women we serve whether you have received a reply or not.

"I was so glad to see your letter. I felt tears surrounding in my eyes. I come to realize that I have another family." – Rwandan Participant

A letter or a picture is precious to your sister and her community. When a sister receives a letter she shares it with the women in her training group.  Women who have not received a letter also then get to share in the feeling of being acknowledged and supported. Many women cherish letters and pictures from their sponsors and carry them as precious possessions.

Most importantly, your letter will let your sister know that she is not alone. For many women in our program, violence and rape have destroyed their sense of self-worth. It is hard for them to believe that someone across the world could care about them. Writing your sister a letter shows that you believe in her, renewing her sense of hope for a better future.

                         How to Write a Letter to Your Sister Please mail your sister's letter to our office at 4455 Connecticut Ave. NW, Suite 200, Washington DC, 20008. You can also send your letter via email to sponsorship@womenforwomen.org. Be sure to include the following information on your letter:

• Your full name
• Your sponsor ID number 
• Your sister's country
• Your sister's full name
• Your sister's woman group

We will send the letter to our field office as soon as possible, where it will be translated and hand delivered to your sister.  If you have any questions about writing letters, please contact us at sponsorship@womenforwomen.org.

June 2007 - Building a Path to a Better Life: Vestine’s Journey

After war ravaged her country and destroyed the life she knew, Vestine Uwimana faced the impossible challenge of finding her way home. Not just a place to sleep, but a place where she and her children could feel safe. A place where she could provide them with food and an education. A home where she felt like a complete woman again. With the help of Women for Women International, Vestine gained training that guided her on her journey to a new life.

Before war broke out in Rwanda, Vestine was married to a man of a different ethnicity and had four young children. On April 6th 1994, her multi-ethnic family became a target of one of most horrific genocides in Africa’s history. Massacres swept across the country leaving more than 800,000 people dead in the span of four months. Vestine was desperate to protect her children. She took her family and fled to the Tanzanian border facing roadblocks and mass hysteria along the way.

Vestine and her family were lucky to escape from Rwanda with their lives. The Tanzanian refugee camps were swarmed with other survivors fleeing from the slaughter. Vestine thought she had found a safe haven, but the horror had only begun. She was persecuted for her ethnic identity. Then her husband was murdered by Tanzanian soldiers, leaving her alone with four young children.

Once the genocide in Rwanda ended, all Vestine wanted was to return home to pick up the shattered pieces of her life. She was refused when she tried to board a bus taking refugees back to Rwanda. She had no choice but to walk hundreds of miles home with her children.

After her long journey, Vestine returned to Rwanda to find that although the killing had stopped, the wounds of ethnic strife were still fresh. She faced hatred and rejection from her husband’s family.

Vestine remained compassionate despite her hardships. She adopted two children orphaned by the genocide – a young boy and a mute girl. In addition, Vestine’s youngest child developed a physical disability. As a single mother, she struggled to provide for her six children, especially those with special needs. She joined Women for Women International hoping to find a way to improve her life.

With her sponsorship funds Vestine was able to send all her children to school, including her youngest disabled child. She bought mattresses and blankets so that her children would have a warm and comfortable place to sleep. After joining Women for Women International’s program, Vestine found a way to forgive and reconcile with her mother-in-law. She also purchased a cow, a goat and two pieces of land where she plants rice. With the money she earns from farming she is able to provide for her family.

Vestine’s journey was long and difficult, but with help from Women for Women International she now is an independent woman who has given her family a place to call home.

May 2007 - Giving Hope to Mothers and their Children: Bobette and Claire’s Story

Like mothers across the world, the greatest hope for women in our program is to ensure that their children are safe and healthy. In the wake of devastating conflict, this basic and universal need motivates mothers to rebuild their lives with the help of Women for Women International.

When Claire, a participant in our Rwandan program, discovered that she unknowingly infected her baby with HIV, she was devastated. Claire’s daughter Bobette is small and frail for a six-year old. She lives each day with the burden of the disease that is weakening her immune system. In poverty and with her own health failing, Claire struggled to provide food for her daughter. She could not afford the costs of expensive medication. Facing dire challenges, Claire turned to Women for Women International for a chance to build a better life for Bobette.

Women for Women International offers rights and health awareness training that educates women about the rampant spread of HIV and AIDS. In Rwanda, an estimated 250,000 people are infected with HIV. As of 2001, 160,000 children have been orphaned by the disease. HIV can be spread from mothers to their children before birth, during birth and through breast-feeding. Mother-to-child transmission accounts for 90 percent of HIV infections worldwide in children and infants. Women for Women International’s reproductive health training teaches women the importance of HIV testing and prevention.

With the knowledge and assistance she received from Women for Women International, Claire is working to improve life for her family and community. While she was being sponsored, she used her monthly funds to buy food and medicine for Bobette and care for her mother and HIV-positive husband.

When Claire graduated she joined a cooperative with some of her fellow graduates. They pooled their money and purchased a grinding mill. The cooperative offers grinding services for wheat, corn and other grains. She told our staff in Rwanda that there are other grinding services in her community, but people choose to purchase services from them because they want to support businesswomen in their community. Claire is attending school to learn English and hopes to one day study medicine, inspired by her own situation.

Claire is an active member of her community. She teaches women about the importance of early HIV testing and ways HIV positive women can safeguard their unborn babies. Thanks to her increased awareness, Claire was able to protect her younger child from infection, and Bobette’s baby brother is HIV free.

Most importantly, Claire now has the tools to ensure that Bobette remains healthy and will have a mother who can love and protect her.

See a video about Bobette and Claire today. Thank you for the support you show mothers around the world!

Special Reminder – Iraq Sponsorship Program

We are in great need of sponsors to support the women we serve in Iraq. We are currently serving over 820 women in Iraq and plan to grow to 1,500 by the end of year. Because of the dire security situation there, sponsors and participants cannot exchange letters at this time. If you or someone you know would be interested in sponsoring a woman in Iraq, please contact us at . 

 

April 2007 - Engaging Men in “Women’s Issues”: Inclusive Approaches to Gender and Development

As a follow-up to our update on our Men’s Leadership Program in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, we invite you to read the latest issue of Critical Half, our bi-annual journal. Critical Half is a publication of Women for Women International devoted to the exchange of ideas and insight encountered by practitioners in the field of gender, development, conflict and post-conflict reconstruction.

Over the course of 14 years of working on gender and development issues, Women for Women International has seen how cultural norms regarding female roles often prevent women from realizing their economic, social and political potential. Men frequently play pivotal roles in maintaining these norms - it is our belief that we cannot overlook opportunities to develop partnerships for change between women and men.

In the Winter 2007 issue of Critical Half, entitled Engaging Men in “Women’s Issues”: Inclusive Approaches to Gender and Development, we present the programs and observations of several individuals and organizations who work with men to promote gender equality. Articles explore men’s perceptions of gender roles; men’s opinions of “women’s empowerment”; factors and incentives that influence men’s receptiveness to economic, social and political programs for women; obstacles faced by men who wish to implement change in their communities; and proven strategies to create partnerships with men to positively transform gender relations. 

Readers will no doubt notice that most of the Critical Half articles present examples from sub-Saharan Africa. Interestingly, it appears that many initiatives that engage men are currently operating in that region. The need to involve men in gender issues, however, is a universal concern, and it is our hope that by showcasing work with men in several African communities we can provide insight and inspire debate among other communities around the world who are searching for innovative and sustainable methods to transform gender relations and better the lives of all.   

Read this issue of Critical Half today.

Support a Woman Survivor of War this Mother’s Day

Instead of buying flowers or perfume, why not do something truly meaningful to honor a woman in your life?

Make a Mother's Day gift to Women for Women International.

We'll send your recipient a beautiful Mother's Day card telling her that a donation has been made in her honor. Your gift will help a mother in a war-torn nation realize the most cherished dream of mothers around the world - to care for her children and provide them with a future. At the same time, it will be a moving symbol of how deeply you care for your honoree - and for mothers everywhere that are working toward a brighter future.

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