My name is Lilian Kiden. I am 48 years old, a mother of eight, and a farmer. Although I never had the chance to go to school, WfWI gave me the opportunity to join a leadership and advocacy training program that changed my life.
Now, many people know me, and my influence extends throughout my village and beyond. I have become a Change Agent and now serve as the Sultan (Chief) of the Mahad 11 community in Gimunu Boma, Yei County, South Sudan.
After I graduated from the WfWI Change Agent program in 2022, I started using my skills and experience to address problems in my community. Conflict was a major issue, so I decided to speak up and take action, even when it was difficult. People noticed my efforts and chose me as Sultan, a role usually reserved for men and once considered out of reach for women.
Even though there have been peace agreements after years of fighting in South Sudan, the conflict has not stopped. Instead, the violence has shifted from the front lines into the villages. This change has brought soldiers into closer contact with local people, which has led to more tension between civilians and soldiers. This is the case in my village and in other villages in Yei County. Because there is an army barracks in Yei, I have often helped mediate conflicts between soldiers and civilians.
When a conflict breaks out, I engage in dialogue with both soldiers and senior army officials. This helps build a link between the local community and those in charge of dealing with soldiers who have committed serious offenses. Afterward, Marab, a major general in the army, takes the case, and the soldiers are called in for disciplinary action.
On January 14, 2025, a serious conflict broke out in Yei between two communities from Rumbek town and Bor city in the Lake States. I reported the incident right away, and the people involved were quickly arrested to stop things from getting worse. The court acted quickly and resolved the conflict.
I also help families work through conflicts, which can get worse if not addressed quickly. I bring everyone together to talk things out and highlight why it matters for men to be involved in finding solutions. It can be challenging, but after a few meetings, families usually accept my guidance and find peace again. My experience in conflict resolution helps me mend family feuds and bring back harmony. Even relatives who once avoided each other can start talking and sharing meals again.
I also lead the Change Agents group in my village and actively support members in addressing various community issues. By fostering understanding and taking proactive steps, I help ensure that everyone remains focused and motivated toward our collective goals.
I have worked on many types of conflicts, including disputes between communities, family problems, and disagreements over community water points. Each situation has its own challenges, like traveling long distances or facing hesitation from those involved. Still, I believe it is important to help create a peaceful community and do my best to bring people closer together.