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Music, Friendship and Sorrow: Twelve Months as a Refugee from Ukraine

Olga turns on the radio for the first time in twelve months. She hasn’t been able to listen to music since Russia invaded Ukraine last year. In Mariupol, Olga sang pop and folk music with her group, Melody, who made it onto Ukrainian X-Factor and her husband was the Head of Mariupol’s orchestra.  When war broke out, Olga made the perilous journey across the border to Poland with her son, Max and her parents. Her husband stayed behind in Ukraine.   

One year later, listening to songs alone in her Warsaw flat, Olga reflects on her past as a musician. “It’s the most important thing in my life and I miss it very much. My singing and my group and all this life, it's very painful for me,” she says. 

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Olga and her band during a festival.

It isn’t just music that Olga misses. It’s food. Herring that Poland doesn’t make in quite the same way, Salo – a Ukrainian delicacy that’s a little like bacon and the sour beetroot soup she loves, borscht. She misses her friends too. To Olga, Mariupol was a place full of friends and song where everyone knew everyone else. Now, her band, Melody is scattered along with other friends all over the world in Poland, in Germany, in Ireland. There is no sense of “home” for Olga and get-togethers are over Zoom. Scrolling through her phone doesn’t help either, she deleted all her photos on the way to Poland, in case she was captured by the Russians. It’s a decision she now regrets.  

Poland has welcomed more Ukrainian refugees than any other country - almost 1.5 million people have registered there, according to the UN, most of them women and children. They are safe but twelve months after the start of the war, each one remains in limbo, mourning the life they once had. 

“When I came to Warsaw, I didn’t know how long it would be for and I hoped my husband could join us.” Olga explains. “Without him, without my parents, we’re not a family. One year has passed and it’s not getting any easier. We know this war isn’t over but nobody knows when it will end.  It’s very difficult.” 

When they first arrived in the city, Olga sent her son Max to the Ukrainian school in Warsaw but at the beginning of this academic year, he enrolled at a local polish school. A gregarious teenager, he’s happy and has made a lot of friends, reluctantly still studying all his subjects in Ukrainian online at Olga’s insistence.  

It’s through Olga work at a nonprofit in Warsaw that she holds on to her life in Ukraine, supporting women, like herself, who’ve been displaced from Mariupol. Human Doc Foundation were the first group she encountered when she stumbled across the border. In the weeks that followed, no longer able to sing and desperate to earn money to support herself and Max, Olga volunteered with them until eventually they took her on full time.  

“The thing that saves me is my work”, says Olga. “I work with people I love. I work with women who talk and hug each other. We support each other.” 

Women for Women International is fortunate to have partnered with incredible colleagues like Olga at the Human Doc Foundation to help 320 women and children put the pieces of their lives back together – as much as they can, far from home and family. Together with our partners, we offer dedicated spaces for women refugees to gather and psychosocial support, including art therapy, to begin the healing process. 

As they grapple with life in a strange city, without the usual support networks, our team provides help finding accommodation, legal counsel and vocational training so women can become financially independent. Just as importantly, in Olga’s view, is the support provided by having a regular coffee with someone who knows exactly what you’ve been through and shares your pain. A vital connection to a life that seems ever further away. Olga says:  

“Many of the women refugees have no one familiar here except their children. And when we talk, we understand our problems are the same. And it's gets easier to feel that you're not alone in this big city.” 

Despite everything that has happened over the past year, sounds from home still manage to excite Olga. Since she started listening to music again a few weeks ago, she has become particularly enthused about a new wave of Ukrainian pop which has a really fresh sound. Her face lights up as she explains that it has a new, more European style. A year after leaving, it’s music from her home country that’s finally given Olga something to sing about. 

About Olga and Human Doc Foundation  

Olga Moisieieva works with the Human Doc Foundation, Women for Women International’s partner in Poland. Displaced from Ukraine by the war, she lives in Warsaw with her teenage son. Women for Women International, together with Human Doc Foundation and the Mariupol Women’s Association, Bereginya help 320 women and children Ukrainian refugees. Together with our partners, we offer dedicated spaces to gather and psychosocial support, including art therapy. Our team provides help finding accommodation, legal counsel and vocational training so women can become financially independent. 

About Women for Women International: 

Women for Women International invests where inequality is greatest by helping women who are forgotten — the women survivors of war and conflict. Since 1993, our global community has invested in the power of over 530,000 women across 14 conflict-affected countries, to create a ripple effect that makes the world more equal, peaceful, and prosperous.   

Through Women for Women International’s Stronger Women, Stronger Nations Program, women learn the skills they need to rebuild their families and communities. In Afghanistan, Bosnia and Herzegovina, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Iraq, Kosovo, Nigeria, Rwanda, and South Sudan, women who join the program connect with each other to form support networks, are equipped with the skills to earn an income and save and gain knowledge and resources to care for their families, and defend their rights. Women use their power together, passing it on to neighbors and their children for lasting change.  

That is the power of women, for women.    

Over the next ten years, our goal is to scale our impact to improve the lives of millions of the most marginalized women affected by war and conflict. Our vision is to create a world in which all women determine the course of their lives and reach their full potential.   

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