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Working Together for Change: Men Supporting Women

"We're standing up for the rights of women and girls in our communities to create their own independent futures."

Men and women working together is the only way to change traditions and socials norms that discriminate against women and restrict their freedoms.

Accelerating gender equality requires breaking the silence on unacceptable norms. It is essential that women have the tools to stand up for themselves, their sisters and their daughters. Our Stronger Women, Stronger Nations program teaches women to understand their rights, while also equipping them with the skills to stand up for them – for what they need, deserve and believe in. But women can’t do it alone – especially in some of the world’s more conservative communities.

While men still hold too much of the power, ending gender-based violence and achieving gender equality will only be possible when more men stand up and support what’s right. We have seen this in the communities we work with. Where our Men’s Engagement Program is delivered, complementing our Stronger Women, Stronger Nations program, the women we work with have higher class attendance rates and increased value as decision-makers within the family.

#ItsNotOk in Nigeria

No country has yet achieved gender equality, but depending on where in the world you are, the issues facing women today will be different. 

#ItsNotOK Nigeria
Photo credit: Women for Women International - Nigeria

This year for 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence, a worldwide campaign that begins on the International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women (25th November) and runs until World Human Rights Day on 10th December, we ran a global campaign to say #ItsNotOK to normalize violence against women. 

As part of the campaign, our staff, program participants and international community shared pictures of themselves completing the sentence “It’s not okay…”. From our team at Women for Women International – Nigeria, these statements included:

  • “It’s not okay to applaud harmful traditional practices against women”

  • “It’s not okay to force young girls into marriage”

  • “It’s not okay to deprive women from earning a living to transform their lives!”

  • “It’s not okay to deny girls their right to education” 

  • “It’s not okay to deny women pre-natal care"

Our team in Nigeria train the women in our program to understand these rights, how they are protected by the law, and how best to realize and defend them. This helps the women survivors of war we work with to rebuild their lives, to support their families - including protecting their daughters - and to improve the lives of other women in their communities. 

Nigeria's Bauchi State is one of the regions where we run our Men's Engagement Program, educating men to understand women's issues and teaching them to be supporters of and advocates for the women and girls in their lives.

#ItsNotOK Nigeria
Photo credit: Ryan Carter

Because we work with different communities around the world, our program differs slightly place to place. The details depend on the culture of the community, the laws in place and the issues that women are facing. In Bauchi State, Nigeria, men’s training covers a whole host of issues, led by our social and economic empowerment trainers, and also bringing in some of the more vocal women within the community to share their experiences directly.

According to some of the women who joined a group recently, the most important issues discussed during these sessions included: the role of men in combatting rape in their community, widows’ rights to inheritance, girl-child education, how to seek redress when rights are violated, the role of both parents in homemaking and discipline in the family. Both the men and women shared ideas on how to complement each other’s weaknesses for better relationships in the home – and, importantly, for the overall growth of their community.

"Voice of the Male Champions"

Across our men’s engagement activities in Nigeria, as well as in Afghanistan and Eastern Democratic Republic of Congo, men were 80% more active in supporting women's rights at graduation compared to enrollment. More men have also reported developing dialogues in communities that bring men and women together to make decisions and create joint solutions.

This summer, graduates and current participants in our men's program engaged male listeners over the radio, creating a program dubbed 'Voice of the Male Champions'. They shared their learnings and experiences alongside select experts from various sectors, discussing vital issues around tackling gender-based violence and women’s participation in social and economic activities. They invited legal practitioners, doctors, religious and traditional leaders to address those tuning in to listen and add their voice to the conversation.

"We're standing up for the rights of women and girls in our communities to create their own independent futures. We encourage men to support women, especially in the home front to bring up their children." - Graduate of our Men's Engagement Program

#ItsNotOK Nigeria
Photo credit: Charles Atiki Lomodong

Presenting on the radio program, a current participant shared that even though he hadn’t had the opportunity to extend his education beyond primary school, the Men’s Engagement Program challenged him to believe in education for his children – boys and girls. He said:

"I don’t just keep this knowledge to myself, I and my group which consists of four other participants encourage other men during our evening hangouts on the need to pay attention to their children’s education, specifically the girl.  We will continually sensitize men on the importance of girl education."

"We have gained a lot in this discussion, and we pray may God almighty support us as parents to do the needful in taking good care of our children so as not to be victims of rape. Thank you." - Male listener who called in to the "Voice of Male Champions" Radio Program

Our team at Women for Women International – Nigeria reported that the topics covered were extremely informative.

A standout issue was the lack of awareness of a State law prohibiting the withdrawal of girls from primary or secondary school. This law has been in place since 1985, but many listeners, including a headmaster, weren’t aware that it existed. Now, he will be able to enforce the retention of girls in school with the weight of the law behind him – protecting girls from early marriage, which is all too common in the community.

"The topic today is spot on. The level of violence is becoming alarming. I believe a lot of people are listening and are learning a lot." - Male listener who called in to the "Voice of Male Champions" Radio Program

Women for Women International's work in Nigeria is generously supported by players of People's Post code Lottery.


Story originally published to Women for Women UK. 

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