What does peace mean to you?

With over 40 active conflicts in the world today, and record-breaking numbers of people displaced from their homes by violence, sometimes ‘world peace’ can seem like little more than a lofty ideal. But for anyone who has experienced the physical dangers and psychological stress of conflict in their daily lives, peace has much more tangible and personal meanings.

Furera Ismail is a participant of Women for Women International’s year-long training programme in Riyom, Plateau State, Nigeria.
Furera Ismail is a participant of Women for Women International’s year-long training program in Riyom, Plateau State, Nigeria.

For Furera Ismail, a young mother from Riyom, in Nigeria’s volatile Plateau State, peace is simple, everyday things: being able to visit her neighbors’ houses, to graze her animals freely, to sell her homemade yoghurt at the local market and earn enough to send her seven children to school, rather than out to work. To not be constantly worrying about her family’s safety. Since stability returned to her village in the last six months, thanks to peacebuilding efforts led by local women and supported by Women for Women International, Furera has noticed another small but profound change: “Now I can sleep soundly, with my eyes closed,” she says.

Just a few years ago, Furera’s husband, a cattle herder, was killed during a violent dispute between herdsmen and neighboring farmers. Shortly afterwards, her house was burned down during another attack. These incidents are part of an escalating, tit-for-tat cycle of violence which is currently engulfing central Nigeria. As well as competition for land, religious and ethnic divisions also fuel the conflict – herder families like Furera’s are part of the Fulani ethnic group, who are predominantly Muslim, while farming families are largely Christian.

"Now I can sleep soundly, with my eyes closed," says Furera.

A few weeks ago, I traveled to Plateau State myself, to visit the work of Women for Women International – the organisation where I have worked for the past decade. During my time there, I met dozens of women with stories like Furera’s, from both sides of the herder-farmer conflict. Women who had witnessed the torture and execution of family members, whose homes, livestock and livelihoods had been wiped out – not by an invading force, but by neighboring groups who have lived alongside each other for centuries. I spoke to Kangyang, a Christian farmer whose story is a mirror-image of Furera’s – her husband and 11-year old son had been shot to death by Fulani herdsmen.

This bitter feud has not only cost thousands of lives – it has created a corrosive climate of distrust and fear between neighbors, which destroys the social fabric of communities, as well as individuals’ sense of security in their own homes.

Yet in the midst of this, I met women who are rejecting the circle of retaliation, reprisals and hatred. They have come together, bridging religious and ethnic divides, fueled by a determination to improve the lives of their families and to put an end to the terrible cycle of suffering.

Brita Fernandez Schmidt with a group of Women for Women International participants in Plateau State, Nigeria. Photo: Monilekan
Brita Fernandez Schmidt with a group of Women for Women International participants in Plateau State, Nigeria. Photo: Monilekan

Women from both groups met during Women for Women International’s year-long training program, which supports marginalized women with knowledge and skills to earn an income, improve their family’s health and well-being, and advocate for their rights. Crucially, women from both Fulani Muslim and Christian farmer communities are enrolled together, in mixed classes of 25 – creating a space for conversation and collaboration that had never existed before.

As well as improving their own and their families’ lives, women have taken the lead in reconciling their fractured communities. Recently, they organised a peace dialogue between herdsmen and farmers, with the support of the local authorities, bringing together representatives for both sides. The result was a peace agreement, which has been successful - in the last six months, the fighting has stopped. Children are going back to school, crops and cattle are safe, families’ economic well-being has improved, and people who had fled the region are returning.

There are no quick and easy fixes to the devastation caused by conflict. But what I saw during my time in Nigeria convinced me that long-term strategies – which allow peace to be shaped and defined by communities themselves – are the only effective way to end complex, entrenched cycles of violence. If they are implemented in the right way, they can in fact generate lasting change in a remarkably short period.

There is a role for individuals like you and me in this process as well – to help raise the voices of women like Furera, who are so often invisible and silenced, or seen as merely the helpless victims of conflict, rather than a powerful force for progress and peace. Changing this narrative is critical to securing more investment and support for marginalized women in areas like Riyom, so they can build better futures for themselves and their families.

Change Agents, trained by Women for Women International, convene a peace dialogue meeting between farmers and herdsmen in Nigeria’s volatile Plateau State. Photo: Monilekan
Change Agents convene a peace dialogue between farmers & herdsmen in Nigeria's volatile Plateau State. Photo: Monilekan

This World Peace Day, I’ll be thinking about Furara’s definitions of peace: friendship and trust among neighbors, an education for her children, food on the table, dreams for the future, and a peaceful night’s sleep.

For women whose lives have been most affected by violent conflict, peace is not just an aspirational ideal, but a series of urgent, practical goals that they are working hard to make a reality. We need to get behind them every step of the way.

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